Let’s talk about something we all learned as kids but somehow left behind as we grew older—the pinky promise. Remember how unbreakable that felt? That tiny gesture carried a world of trust, commitment, and sincerity. Today, I want to revisit the power of that simple act and explore how embracing a “pinky promise” mentality can transform not just healthcare, but our communities and our relationships by encouraging us to care for others in need.
Reconnecting with Our Original Promise
When we first dreamed of making a difference in the world, our reasons were pure and straightforward: “I want to help people.” It’s the kind of innocent commitment akin to a child’s pinky promise. But along the way, amid the protocols, paperwork, and pressures of life, we might’ve lost touch with that initial spark.
The Unspoken Covenant
Every time someone reaches out for help—whether it’s a friend, a neighbor, or even a stranger—they’re not just asking for assistance; they’re placing their trust in us. They’re expecting not just our skills but our genuine care—a pinky promise of sorts that we’ll do right by them.
But let’s be real. Trust isn’t automatic. We’ve all had experiences where promises were broken, and trust was eroded. So why should people believe that we’ll be there for them?
Making the Uncomfortable Changes
It’s time we hold up our end of the bargain. That means:
- Embracing Empathy: We can’t truly help others if we’re not willing to step into their shoes. This isn’t just about lending a hand; it’s about opening our hearts.
- Listening Actively: People are expressing their needs more than ever. Their voices are critical. We need to treat them not just as numbers or tasks but as individuals with unique stories and challenges.
- Cultivating Genuine Connections: We must see others not as obligations but as people—like family. When we look at them, we should see someone’s parent, sibling, or child.
Breaking the Cycle of “This Is How It’s Always Been Done”
Tradition has its place, but clinging to outdated methods stifles progress. The phrase “This is how it’s always been done” should no longer be an excuse but a challenge—a call to find better ways to care for each other.
Change isn’t easy. It requires us to step out of our comfort zones, to confront the “boogeyman of disruption.” But remember, growth and comfort rarely ride the same wave.
Let’s make a new kind of pinky promise—a commitment to transformation, equity, and genuine human connection. It’s about creating an environment where everyone feels safe, heard, and valued. Every day, we have the opportunity to renew our vow to our communities and ourselves. To not just help but to care. To not just solve problems but to honor the whole person.
So let’s lock pinkies on this. Let’s bring back that unbreakable trust and redefine what it means to be in the business of caring—for everyone, every time.
Stay compassionate, stay committed.
Until next time,
Sekou
